Alzheimer’s has redrawn the daily world of Fiona Phillips, the former morning TV anchor, since her diagnosis at 65. After openly discussing her experience in her 2023 book "Remember When: My life with Alzheimer’s", Fiona now chooses silence on the matter—her way of forging ahead, even as her condition evolves. Her close-knit family, led by husband Martin Frizell, must adapt to the new rhythms and unpredictable hurdles brought on by memory loss and emotional turmoil. The story emerging from their home isn’t just medical; it is deeply human, woven through with dignity, sadness, and brief flashes of resilience.
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Shifting from openness to privacy
The initial period following Fiona’s diagnosis was marked by a willingness to share, including the intimate process of publishing her memoir in 2023. According to Martin Frizell, this openness has faded.
"The book that she wrote last year... she spoke about it absolutely. But now, her way of coping—that’s her, everybody’s different—is she doesn’t want to talk about this word beginning with ‘A’. And we don’t either."
Fiona’s refusal to dwell on her condition shapes family life, prompting those around her to avoid any direct mention of Alzheimer’s in conversation. The change is as much psychological as practical: what was once spoken of openly now lives in subtler interactions and a mutual understanding to skirt painful realities.
Memory loss, confusion, and the toll on daily life
This retreat from discussion mirrors the progression of her illness, which has started to erode both recent and distant memories. Martin explains:
"She doesn’t remember Christmas now, she doesn’t remember New Year. I don’t want to give the impression she’s some sort of basket case. She’s very much with us. She is still the world’s most stubborn woman and still around the house."
Despite her vibrant presence at home, day-to-day activities have become fraught with confusion. Martin details the difficulty of even simple outings:
"There’s no way I could drive or we could take public transport as Fiona now rarely understands where she is going or why, constantly asking what is happening, probably four or five times a minute on loop for the entire journey."
These new patterns—repetitive questions, anxiety during trips—reflect the emotional weight and logistical strain experienced by the family. At one point, the stress nearly compelled Martin to abandon a planned taxi journey:
"Honestly, I got close to telling the taxi driver to turn around and take us home—Fiona’s only safe place—as the stress was unbearable. But of course that self-pity pales into insignificance compared to what Fiona was going through."
Coping, dignity, and the family’s emotional landscape
Beneath the surface routines, the emotional impact is raw. Martin openly links Fiona’s persistent depression to the disease itself, noting:
"She believes she just has chronic depression, which she does, another symptom of the illness as well."
He’s quick to defend her dignity:
"She’s still there, but day by day, we can see it slipping away. Just to sit there and see this person who was, as you know, the most dynamic, bubbly, and had so much pride in how she dressed and what she did, it’s just a loss of dignity."
Martin’s words capture the silent grief of witnessing a partner’s transformation, the relentless disappearance of small pieces of personality, memory and self-sufficiency. Yet, there’s an undercurrent of resilience in their approach. Even as old certainties fade, Fiona’s stubbornness—her trademark—remains, reminding her family of the woman she’s always been.
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Fiona Phillips' husband says there has been major change in her condition - OK! Magazine
