Foreplay is a lot like appetizers... great for setting the mood, but ultimately they exist to set the stage for the main course. So here are a few things you can do to give it a boost.
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Set the stage and go up from there
You can either send them a kind of synopsis of what you have in mind and want to do to them or prep them with a few sexts. We also have tipson how to sext if you need some direction!
Bring out the accessories
They can be anything from a blindfold to handcuffs to sex toys…
Masturbate in front of him/her
They'll have to settle for watching you give yourself pleasure. Which will only make them want to do the pleasing even more!
Blindfold him/her
The inability to see will increase your partner's arousal levels. So once they're blindfolded, don't hesitate to stimulate their erogenous zones: nibble on them, caress them, lick them, kiss them. Take your time building up the excitement.
Strip for him/her
If you feel comfortable doing this, stripping in front of him/her makes for great foreplay. Slowly but surely, gradually remove your clothes. A word of advice: wear something that you can easily remove and that makes you feel confident.
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