Oral sex: Best ways to deep-throat

Deepthroating could be one of the most pleasant sexual experiences one could ever have, however, there is a technique to doing it right. Here is a beginner's guide.

Oral sex: Best ways to deep-throat
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Start slow

According to Texas-based sex educator, Goody Howard, don’t go from zero to deep throat—gradually work your way up to having the entire phallus in your mouth.

Clincal sexologist, Megan Stubbs suggests:

Spend some time licking the shaft, circling the head, sucking the tip, and flicking the frenulum.
You can increase the pace and amount of penis or dildo in your mouth as momentum builds.

Stubbs says:

The head of the penis is a bed of sensitive nerve endings

You may want to use verbal and nonverbal communication to figure out what your partner likes. Are they shifting their hips toward your mouth when you focus on the tip? Odds are good they enjoy having their 'head' stimulated. Are they shifting their hips away or grimacing when you focus on the tip? Odds are they don’t.

You can also ask: 'Do you like when I lick the head, or is it too sensitive?'

Pay attention to their body language

You shouldn’t only pay attention to their body language cues when you graze the tip. You always want to be tuned into those cues throughout. They give you insight into what your partner does and does not like.

One of the best ways to ramp up the intimacy quotient of deep throating is to look into your partner's eyes from time to time as you do.

Use more than just your mouth

It’s called oral sex, not oral only sex. It will definitely be more exciting to use your hands.

Howard says:

Using your hands is a great way to keep your mouth from getting tired, as well as a great way to stimulate the entire penis and mix up sensations

When you start using your hands, you may want more than spit to support the slide-and-glide of your hands along the shaft.

Howard concludes:

Any lube can be helpful, but flavoured lubricant adds in an additional sense (taste) into the experience for you.