Allowing your partner to spank you a few times in the heat of the moment can bring an extra bit of spice in the bedroom when things are starting to get a little vanilla. Not just to the spankee, but the spanker too!
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Doubt it? Well, it can be scientifically proven! The act of spanking triggers a surge of blood to a particularly erogenous area. Moreover, the borderline between pain and pleasure is not always unpleasant.
Italo Baccardi, the author of the book ‘Osez... la fessée’ (Dare to be Spanked), says:
[Spanking] activates a part of the body rich in erogenous zones. The anus is the most obvious because it is the closest. In addition, the vibrations from the impacts radiating towards the belly also stimulate the clitoris or the penis. Depending on the case, spanking very quickly creates sexual arousal.
Note also that spanking can take your mind off any complexes you may have about your behind: round buttocks are regularly featured on the internet, for example when it comes to icons such as Jennifer Lopez or Niki Minaj. Be proud of your booty, in all circumstances!
Jean-Jacques Rousseau also loved spanking. In his famous confessions, he admitted:
I had found in pain, in shame itself, a mixture of sensuality that had given me more desire than fear. (...) But [the] second time was also the last; for Miss Lambercier, having noticed some sign that this punishment was not serving its purpose, declared that she was giving it up, and that it was tiring her too much. (...) Who would believe that this childish punishment, received at the age of eight by the hand of a girl of thirty, had decided my tastes, my desires, and my passions, for the rest of my life?
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